Teen Pregnancy.

I was looking on google, and was curious as to what the statistics were about Teen Pregnancy. When I came across the total rate of teen pregnancy in the United states, and Canada and was completly flabbergasted about how many teens now get pregnant. The total rate of pregnancies in the United States was 821,810(84 pregnancies per 1,000 people). The total rate of pregnancies in Canada for 2000 was 38,600 (38 pregnancies per 1,000 people). They say that Sweden and France, have even lower teen pregnancy rates than Canada.

In my opinion, which hopefully doesn't offend anyone who is pregnant. Is that I believe that pregnancy is a beautiful thing, giving birth to something so precious is amazing. Being able to teach your child. There is nothing more that gets me angry and worried and confused as to teens getting pregnant. They aren't ready, they don't have all the right things to take care of a baby. A baby isn't like going shopping for a new dress it's something with a heart, a living human. I feel like teens think, yes! Sex without a condom, I'm cool now. Just wait until you are laying in a hospital giving birth to a new born baby. It's not fun, it's not easy, it's hard.

I feel like teens don't take it as seriously as they should be. I mean were young, we sometimes do stupid things. I'm not okay with abortions, but I think sometimes there is a time and a reason for it. I don't like adoption. Why bring someone to the world and chuck them to someone else, I mean your child isn't going to like that when they get older.


All I'm trying to say is that, I am no all for teens having babies. Take responsibility, and make the right choices.. Condoms are always nessacary. Ladies don't be silly Wrap his Willy.. Seriously!

Please know who ever is reading this and might be pregnant I am not trying to offend it's just my opinion. Hope some of you take this into serious thought.

Good for the soul.

I sometimes do this thing where after I feel nerdy. I am not embarassed though, so I will share with you. Every day I come on the computer and post the daily quotes. Kinda lame I know, but sometimes they are good, and sometimes they are bad, and most of the times they make you think. So I will share them with you :)

(I just want to say that I didn't write these quotes)

“In just two days, tomorrow will be yesterday”

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

"Don't count the days-make the days count"

"I will prepare and someday my chance will come"

"You can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one. Each day is diferent one, each day brings a miracle of it's own. It's just a matter of paying attention to this miracle."

"Someday is not a day of the week"

"Every day you spend drifting away from your goals is a waste not only of that day, but also of the additional day it takes regain lost ground"

"I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I wnat to read, and all the friends I want to see"

"Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end. It's not a day when you lounge around doing nothing; it's when you've have everything to do, and you've done it"

Hopefully it made you think, because i know it made me, haha.

Cry cry, and cry some more.

I have this problem where I cry over everything. Haha, It's almost as if I have this big bag of water hiding behind my eyes and once something that strongly bothers me pops that bag, and millions of little tears weld from my eyes. This isn't a touchy subject, it's actually very funny. Because alot of people always call me a baby, when they say it, they usually say it as a joke. When I hear it, I take it seriously. I'm such a baby! I once sat in my room and as thinking... Hmmm what seriously makes me cry. Not only but one thing came to mind. It was probably the most stupidest thing, but after knowing that I actually laughed at myself. You sometimes feel sorry for people who are sad, then you have me. The person who is extremly happy, all the time, and when she cries, shes still happy. Does that make sense? It's like, when I'm crying, I'm still happy, it's just when your crying theres something bothering you, but in my case when I'm crying it's only because I take this little thing and make it something completly bigger then it is, then after someone says Jenn, seriously! then I laugh and say wow I'm stupid. I actually never really taken it into this much of thought. Now that it's out, and said with I feel even more stupid. If you have the same problem as me. It'll get better, just get a friend to slap you when ever you take something and blow it out of proportion. It's silly how girls do that isn't it, actually let me rephrase that. It sucks how girls do that isn't it. You always just have to put it in your head that it's started so small got to big, and will end even smaller. :)

Gay Marriage.

Alot of people have many opinions and beliefs, and one is deffinitly towards gays, lesbians and bi's. I mean I'm not saying that everyone hates gays, but I believe that half of this world don't agree to it. I have heard just about everyones opinions, and ive never actually shared my opinion. Some of my friends agree that, it isin't a sin, but it's not right. Or they say, It is a sin, Or most say it's gross, and sorta awkward. In my opinion, there is no rule to love, you can love who you want wether it's a girl or a boy. You can get married to who ever you want, because when you love someone, it's not about what they wear, what race they are, or what gender they are, it's when you look at them, and you see that they are exactly the person you want to share the rest of your life with. Not only do you want to share your life with them but you love them for who the are inside, because it's always whats inside that counts. Yes, you do have your opinion, and if it's against mine then yeah i can think that your just being close minded, but doesn't mean i'm going to hate you, or make you feel like your a terrible person. I'm just trying to show people that maybe other then making gays feel like they have to hide themselves from family, friends etc.. they can be out of their shells and walk with us, because they are no different then we are.

I wish I had a little control over how people think about Gay marriage, actually I wish I could change the rules of gay marriage. Because if you want to get married to a guy, and your a guy, so be it. If you want to be married to a girl and your a girl, So be it.

Who are we to say that gay people can't love and feel what we feel when we get married.

Wrong signals.

I've always realized that there are so many people that judge a person acording to style, beliefs, taste in music or other topics, race ect.. but whats always something that people judge others about are piercings.

If you have your lip pierced, your either a poser, or an emo. Which to me is retarted because how does a lip piercing make you a poser? It's like saying to someone that if they are wearing the same shirt as you, they are posers. Which is more then impossible to find a shirt that hasn't been made over a million times, and put into stores, for everyone to have one.

If you have your nose pierced, your a lesbian. I think it's if you have your right side pierced, you are a lesbian. Which is stupid because I have my nose pierced on the right side, and I am not a lesbian. It's actually funny how people sit down and make up stupid stuff that is completly irrelevant to having a nose piercing.

If you have your tongue pierced, it's clearly because you want to be better in giving oral sex. Pft! that is ridiculous, some people just like the look of it. I mean yeah sometimes if I know someone who is a tad promiscuous and has their tongue pierced, I'm like maybe she did get it to upgrad her skills in oral, but then after I think that, I'm like, seirously though who cares.

I'm getting so sick and tired of people judging everyone for something they like? sometimes its different but its because you don't like it. But it's nothing you should talk about and waste your breath other? I mean where does that lead you. right.

Think about it.

Family bonding.

Me and my family just moved out of our old house. It was actually so sad just leaving that house, that was fun of soo many memories I mean I used to live in that house since I was 3 years old. I grew up with so many people there. Now it's all gone and now i have to make new memories. What sucks the most now is that i'm not as close to everything and everyone as I used to be, all my friends live in ajax and in oshawa.. and i know its not too far, but to get a ride every weekend, its far.

When I used to live in oshawa I could always just say i'll be right there, I'm walking. Now it's more like, Oh I can't, or I'll take the bus, and the bus would be too hard because I'm clueless in this town.

Anyways, Hopefully there is only good memories and not bad memories

Requiem for a dream

So last night I was watching this movie called "Requiem for a dream" and as I was watching this moving. I kept on crying and crying, it reminded me of someone I know, and it brought back terrible memories, and thoughts and I just couldint stop crying.

I'll fill you in on the movie a bit. So basically the point of the movie, is how theres this one guy (Jared Leto) Whois a coke addict, and he has a beautiful girlfriend (Jennifer Connelly) who is also a coke addict, and they also have a friend who is also one as well. They all end up going throught this tought situations. Where the italians and the blacks are both killing each other (only the drug dealers) and thats how they made their money,but now that there isint any Cocain selling on the streets, they have to put themselves into risky situations.

For example, Jennifer connelly, she really needs cocain, so she starts to see a dealer, who makes her do things she wouldint ever do (prostitute) herself, for drugs.

Also, Jared Leto's mother, is a very lonely sad old lady, but once she gets a call from this tv show that would like her to come on television, she starts to worry because she wants to fit into her red dress, so she takes drugs to makeher loose weight. She then starts to get addicted and can't stop taking them, she started taking them in the summer and bad things started to happen during winter, she hasnt been eating or doesint anything but cleaning and sleeping. it's very sad movie. It really makes you think.

Anyways if your interested, heres the trailer. it's very old, but its a cool movie.